The neverending list!

Things to Book:
Ceremony & Reception Site (Booked)
Caterer (Booked - Included with Venue)
Band or DJ (booked)
String Quartet (booked)
Ceremony Sound (booked)

Photographer (booked)
Videographer (booked)

Officiant  (Booked)
Florist (Booked)
Baker for Wedding Cake and anniversary cake (booked)
Alterations (booked)
Make-Up Artist (booked)
Hairstylist (Booked)
Manicure & Pedicure Appointment for Day Before Wedding (booked)
Dance lessons (booked)
Rehearsal Dinner site (booked)
night-before lodging (make people list and $3 per box to deliver to them Thursday)
Limo (booked)
Wedding Night Lodging (booked)
Honeymoon (booked)

Things to Decide:

Budget (Complete)
Date (Complete)
Guest List (Complete)
Bridal Party (Complete)
Color Scheme (Complete)
Wedding Cake Design (complete)

Cake topper (complete)
Bouquets (complete)
Boutonnieres (complete)
Centerpieces (complete)
Linens (complete)
Vows (complete)
Ceremony Readings and Script (complete)
Ceremony Music (complete)
Formal Dance Music (complete)
Wedding Day Timeline (complete)
Something Old, New, Borrowed & Blue (complete)
Engagement Photography location (complete)
Menu (complete)
invitation wording (complete)
Program wording (complete)

Things to Do:

Register for Gifts (complete)
Block Hotel Rooms (complete)
Plan Rehearsal Dinner (complete)
Finalize Menu and Service Details (complete)
Get Engagement Photos Taken (complete)
Schedule and Attend Dress Fittings (complete)
Apply for Marriage License (complete)
Schedule Hair & Make-Up Trial (complete)
Write Thank-You Notes for Shower (complete)
Book ceremony sound person (complete)

get pictures together for slideshow (complete)
Confirm Honeymoon Reservations (complete)
Give Final Head-Count to Caterer (complete)
get 4 roses for parents (complete)
get holders for sharing cards (complete)

make "I Do" letters (complete)
make "words of advice" jar (complete)
make table numbers (complete)
make card box (complete)
Confirm Final Payment Amounts with Vendors (complete)
Bridal Party Gifts (complete)

make photo scavender hunt cards (complete)
Make List of Must-Take Pictures for Photographer (complete)

Give Wedding-Day Directions, Schedule and Contact List to Bridal Party (complete)
make toss petal cones (complete)
Confirm Reservations for Out-of-Town Guests (complete)
candles for grandfathers that have passed (complete)

finish programs (complete)
Confirm Location, Time and Playlist with DJ (complete)
Confirm Location and Time with Photographer (complete)
pick pics for guest book table (complete)

get ring and necklace cleaned (complete)
Confirm Final Arrangement with Florist (complete)
make emergency kit (complete)
Make List of Must-Play (and Must-Not Play) for DJ or Band (complete)
Leave Honeymoon Itinerary with Parents and list of things to get/keep from wedding
 (top cake layer, my silver votive candles, candy jars, my bouquet, memory and unity candles, accompaniment CDs from sound guy, program basket, bubble basket, cake serving set, toasting flutes, gifts, cameras, guestbook, well jar, table numbers, marriage certificate)

make escort cards (complete)
make "reserved" aisle signs (complete)

Daniel's gift (complete)

Prepare Toasts or Thanks to Guests (married 57 years) (complete)

get flowers for my hair from florist (complete)
Drop Off Required Materials to Venue (complete)
Pack Bags for Honeymoon (complete)

put vendor payment and tips in envelopes (string quartet, videographer, sound check, photographer tip, makeup tip) (complete) 
Rehearse Ceremony
Write Thank-You Notes for Wedding
Change of Name Paperwork


Things to Order:

My Gown (complete)
My shoes, both ceremony and reception (complete) 
Bridesmaid Dresses (complete)
Tuxedos (complete)
Wedding Bands (complete) 
Bridal Party Gifts (complete)
Parents Gifts (complete)
cameras for the reception tables (complete)
picture sharing cards (complete)